Top 10 Relationship Green Flags Backed by Psychology
• Anemes Editorial
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1) Consistency over intensity
Daily reliability predicts long-term satisfaction more than early fireworks.
2) Accountability
They repair, not deflect.
3) Curiosity
They ask questions and listen.
4) Shared values
Alignment on money, time, and family.
5) Secure attachment
Comfort with closeness and independence.
6) Respectful conflict
No name-calling or contempt—ever.
7) Growth mindset
Problems are solvable, together.
8) Emotional safety
You can disagree without fear.
9) Reciprocity
Effort flows both ways.
10) Play
Shared laughter buffers stress.